Dating in the church
I want to speak to you about His devotion and sacrifice for what is, for Him, the unrivaled passion of His heart.
A woman added: “Three dates in and people start dropping hints about wedding bells.
It’s enough to put anyone off.” There’s often pressure in churches (spoken or unspoken) for people to marry quickly – partly to avoid sexual temptation, and partly because Christians tend to idolise marriage and the nuclear family.
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I couldn’t help noticing he had his arm around you. A new relationship, when you’re just working out how you feel about each other, can quickly be scorched by the heat of outside interest.
No, not the one that the Stilley family has coming this Thursday!There is no shortage of conversation on that around our home already, and we are excited for our son and our new daughter-in-law as this wonderful day approaches.
“Who was that good-looking young man I saw you with at the All Souls service? ” A service to commemorate the dead wouldn’t be my first choice for a date, but that was beside the point. For a private person, the invasion can be unbearable.And I want to argue that if the church means this much to Jesus, it ought to mean that much to you and me.In fact, I want to pick up on this analogy that Paul uses of Christ's love for the church and ask you a very important question: Are you married or just dating the church? Dating is a kind of trial period in a relationship where your commitments are soft, relationships are tentative, and you keep your options open.If you’re feeling brave, you could explain that, unless there are particular concerns, single people expect to be treated like adults. Beat it: This is a tricky one, especially in small churches where it’s hard to avoid each other.Alternatively, it may be time to find a less controlling church. Certainly, you shouldn’t date recklessly within your congregation, but when it comes to true love, sometimes you have to take a chance. Well, if you’re grown-up enough to have a relationship, you should be able to be pleasant to each other once you’re past that first awkward phase.No this morning, I want to talk to you about Christ's love for His bride, the Church.